- Tyrans husbands. How to stop male cruelty. Landy Bankroft
About the book:
For the past seventeen years, Lundy Bankroft devoted specialization in the field of everyday cruelty and behavior of cruel men. He is the author of the books “When Dad Hurts Mom” (“When Dad offends Mom”) and “The Batterer as a Parent” (“Home aggressor in the role of father”), as well as several articles for “The New England Journal of Medicine” (one of the oldest medical journals of the world) and other professional publications. Former Merge co -director, the first national correctional program for men prone to manifesting cruelty, today he practices in Massachusetts and at the same time teaches employees of various state and legal organizations to work with cases of domestic cruelty.
The book from the series "Practical Psychology" and this does not contradict the content. The author writes that it really can be put into practice. There are no advice like “Start appreciate yourself and throw a bastard”, but there is a classification of cruel men, a detailed description of the origin of cruelty, the reasons for it cause and not cause, debunking myths, and most importantly, how to fight. I repeat once again: practical advice, not chewing the burned!
Landy Bankroft exposes stereotypes about male cruelty.
- On the hook: how to break the circle of unhealthy relationships. Aud Dalsegg Inger Wess
About the book:
What to do if you are touched in a family or at work? Does this mean that you are really as miserable and worthless as someone convinces you? Or maybe you just deal with a psychopathic person?
From the book written by two Norwegian authors - the journalist of Aud Dalsegg and the lawyer Inger Wessa, specializing in the topics of domestic violence and mobbing, you will learn about who the psychopaths are, why they behave with other people and with what on earth they get away a lot. The book describes different types of psychopathic personalities, as well as the manners of their behavior. The authors give examples of the most typical cases of victims of the “hook” psychopaths and offer effective methods of salvation even from patho situations.
- Dumb tears. A book for those who want to get rid of pressure and tension in the family. Svetlana Morozova
About the book:
Relations in a couple, and later in the family, may not be easy to develop. However, if a close person, a man, behaves imperiously, does not reckon with the opinion and needs of a woman, insists on his right to determine and control her life, it is about domestic violence. It has a variety of forms, often far from assault. This book was born from the experience of communicating with women who turn to the Center for Assistance to People who have experienced episodes of violence. She talks about how not to get into a relationship with a man who can become a home tyrant, how to find out that your husband is a tyrant, what domestic violence leads to and what to do if it has become part of your life.
- Toxic. How to build a healthy relationship and not get plunged. Anna Pashkova
About the book:
“Toxic relationships” - so beautifully psychologists and doctors call relationships within the family, where one person suppresses the identity of the other. Sometimes in families where partners are prone to violence, real tragedies occur: serious diseases develop in children on the basis of stress. How not to go crazy with guilt, is it possible to return such a baby to life and, finally, that will help break out of dangerous relationships, and better - immediately avoid them? About this the book of the "eyewitness" of events - Anna Pashkova.
The book is small, you can read in two evenings, the language is very simple and understandable. The book has examples, including the author’s own story, there are comments from a clinical psychologist, lawyer, psychiatrist, analytical psychologist. This book is well and simply shows how it happens, and gives one, but very true, advice: run.
- I'm not afraid to talk about sexual violence. Svetlana Morozova
About the book:
The rapist is often a familiar, outwardly prosperous person: colleague, teacher, neighbor. A person who wants to demonstrate his strength and power, subjugating the body and emotions of another. But the stereotypes established in society make the rapist “victims” ... This attitude condemns the victims of loneliness and prevents the police from contacting the police. We do not see the main thing: a person who attacked the sexual inviolability of another is a criminal.
This book was born from the experience of communicating with women who turn to the Center for Assistance to People who have experienced episodes of violence.
- Dolores Clayborn. Stephen King
About the book:
Steven King has books in which there are no vampires, no ghosts, nor dark personalities that get out of the graves. There are only people there. These books are torn to the bones, to the chills the more, the more you are older. When the understanding comes that the beast is not worse than the man and this is the only thing that is really worth being afraid.
The killers live among us, seem ordinary people, and nothing in them for the time being portends the coming nightmare. Why does the killer suddenly endure the most important moral law of human being?
“The psychology of the murder” is the theme of the exciting novel by Stephen King “Dolores Clayborn”. This is the story of Dolores, this little -educated woman who was aging from hard work is a wonderful storyteller. And she is a man with a big heart, the mother of three children and the killer. The confession of Dolores Klekorn went through my imagination and left a deep mark.
- "Behind the closed door." Bernadett Ann Paris
About the book:
Everyone has a familiar couple, similar to Jack and Grace. He is rich and handsome, she is sweet and charming. You like them, and deep down, you even envy them. You want to get to know Grace better, but with surprise you find that it is not so simple. Jack and Grace are inseparable. Someone will say that true love looks like that. And someone will ask why Grace never approaches the phone? Or can not get out for coffee with girlfriends, although after the wedding she quit from work? Or how does she manage to cook so well - and at the same time remain thin? And why do you need gratings on the window of one of the bedrooms? .. Sometimes an ideal marriage is just an ideal lie.
- "Fear, I'm with you." Tanya Tank
About the book:
They are devilishly charming, charming mysterious, totally unscrupulous and incurablely soulless. Four out of a hundred, and three of them are men. Their goal is to destroy us morally, and sometimes physically. To turn our life into ruins with special insidiousness and cynicism, putting on a mask of a loving person, a compassionate friend, a reliable colleague. They are predators of mankind, and are especially dangerous in that it is not written on their forehead. That is why it is so important to be able to recognize them in the early stages.
- “The psychology of the victim. Fairy tale therapy for adults. " Maria Odintsova
About the book:
The book gives an analysis of a peculiar and very dangerous affected psychology, which fetters and suppresses the personal potential, subordinates the personality to various roles and masks, - attitudes for the behavior of the victim. The readers will host a gallery of easily recognizable images that are constantly found in life and the features of which readers can find in themselves.
The author not only describes these destructive changes in the personality, but also offers possible options for overcoming the defeatical psychology and access to a different, constructive level of development, the standard of life.
- “Types of victim behavior. Diagnosis of role -playing victimity. " Maria Odintsova
About the book:
The author continues the topic begun by the book "Psychology of the victim." The concept of the victim is revealed through the prism of mythological, religious and scientific ideas. The characteristics of the social and game roles of the victim, the position and status of the victim are distinguished. The reader presents the technology for the design and standardization of the “type of role -playing victimity” questionnaire and a practical guide to use the questionnaire for diagnostic and research purposes.
The book is addressed to practical psychologists, teachers, other specialists working with various manifestations of Victimity, readers who are interested in the problems of the victim’s phenomenon. It is also recommended to students of higher educational institutions in the development of the courses "Crisis Psychology", "Psychology of the Victim", "Safety of Life Facility", "Advisory Psychology", "Psychodiagnostics", etc.
- “Women in trouble. Program for working with victims of domestic violence. "Dignity of love." Elena Emelyanova
About the book:
The book is intended for psychologists working with women - victims of domestic violence. The manual contains a description of the psychological characteristics of women belonging to the category of victims of domestic violence, practical recommendations on the general principles of rehabilitation work with the specified target group, as well as practical psychological tools (techniques, technology, exercises), which helps the rehabilitation process. The manual was compiled in such a way that the practitioner psychologist has the opportunity to quickly and efficiently compile a rehabilitation program, based on the individual characteristics of each woman.
The book can be very useful and with psychological accompaniment of women who seek to rebuild unsatisfactory, overly dependent relationships with a partner. The author’s experience shows that many methods described in this book effectively “work”, deepening and accelerating the process of personal growth of women striving for love, based on freedom of choice and mutual acceptance.
In addition, a section on group work with women can be interesting to trainers and leading personal growth groups. Many exercises have already been described in the book by E.V. Emelyanova "psychological problems of modern adolescents and their solution in the training", but in this case they have somewhat different interpretations, which demonstrates their versatility and the possibility of application in various thematic areas.
- "Between silence and a cry." Marina Pisklakova, Andrey Sinelnikov
About the book:
This publication is devoted to a comprehensive approach to the problem of violence in the family. It presents an extensive material backed up by Russian and foreign studies; A clear definition of domestic violence is given, and all the components included in it are carefully considered. The book also presents the basic theoretical developments in the field of domestic violence theory and analyzes the influence of cultural and historical and political factors on the model of violent relations in the family. In addition, it presents the practical aspects of working with women who suffered from violence. The rich factual material of the book can also be used in organizing educational measures for the population and for educational campaigns. The publication is addressed primarily to the organizers and specialists in the regional social work with the victims of violence, representatives of female non -governmental organizations. Psychosociologists, psychologists, demographers, journalists, teachers, students and graduate students of higher educational institutions of the social, medical and psychological profile.
- "Women who love too much." Robin Norwood
About the book:
If you love to love for us, then we love too much. This book discusses the reasons that encourage so many women who seek love and loving a man, with a fatal way to inevitably find inattentive, selfish partners who do not meet them. We will find out why, even if our relations with a loved one do not satisfy us, it is still difficult for us to break them. We will understand how our desire to love and love itself becomes a passion, dependence, a pernicious habit, a chronic incurable disease.
- "All because of me (but this is not so)".Brand Brown
About the book:
In the modern world, it is so important to comply with generally accepted standards and norms of success, beauty and correctness that we are burning with shame for ourselves: not very perfect, not smart enough. It is bitter to us when someone doubts our ability to do work or be good parents. But the hardest thing is self -reaction. We are angry with ourselves, annoy, we get irritation on children and loved ones, and at times we are ready to come to terms with the fact that because of our shortcomings we do not deserve happiness.
The strategies developed by the author of this book, outstanding American psychologist Bren Brown, help to recognize our internal sources of uncertainty, master the techniques of psychological self -defense and learn to live easier and more joyful.
- “Who is in sheep's skin? How to recognize the manipulator. " George Simon
About the book:
"I was surrounded by cute, pretty people, slowly squeezing the ring." This phrase fully reflects the method of action of people of a certain type. We are talking about manipulators who unobtrusively rub their trust in us and use our location, kindness and inability to say no, for their own purposes. Often we do not understand that someone shamelessly uses us, and when we realize this, it happens too late: we are devastated, humiliated and suppressed. How to recognize manipulators and not give them the slightest chance? This is what the famous American psychologist George Simon writes about. The classification of manipulative personalities, the image of their actions, the methods of combating them - all this is in the book “Who is in Sheep's skin?”, Having become a world bestseller.
- "Education, violence and repentance." Alice Miller
About the book:
This book is about the consequences of education, about what the actions of the "child" lead to the child. The author analyzes the "pedagogical strategy" of past centuries, as well as the childhood of a drug addict, political leader and killer of children. Alice Miller is convinced: violence against children gives rise to violence on a global scale, and understanding the feelings of the child, sensitivity in relation to his needs and resentment, the sincerity and internal freedom of parents raise better than any pedagogical techniques. The proposed book can be interesting to both psychologists and teachers and parents, especially the future.
- "A textbook for women subjected to violence (who want to stop being)." Consuelo Barea
About the book:
The book “Textbook for women undergoing violence” is about the cycle of violence, about the fears and sorrows that the woman-victim and victims who are in a difficult life situation are experiencing.
Physical, psychological, economic, sexual violence, misconceptions of victims, illegality of self-accusation, manipulative practices of sexists, ways to withdraw from Abuez, post-traumatic states-all these are topics of the book.
One of the chapters is devoted to Victimization, and the personal and social Stockholm syndromes are separately considered. In the final part, we are talking about femicide, such important topics as the true reasons are the dominance of men in the space of culture, history and science and hypocrisy of spiritual male leaders (one of the examples that Consuelo gives the daily life of Gandhi). Even if you yourself do not encounter the Abuez’s problem in everyday life, it is useful to know what family violence is, so as not to leave no attention to what is happening in a neighboring apartment, in the neighbors of the family, in life of important people for you.
- "Men who hate women and women who love them". WITHNewsan Feeling Center
About the book:
In life, it sometimes happens that the most romantic man in the world that you admired before the wedding suddenly turns into a real wife. He begins to blame you for all mortal sins and his failures, pursues unreasonable jealousy, does not allow you to see your family and friends, does not allow you to manage money or make your own career, constantly proving your failure. All this leads you out of equilibrium, you are disappointed in yourself, fall into depression, but continue to love your spouse, take care of him and do not even think about parting immediately. Is there a way out of this impasse? Psychologists, family therapy experts, convincingly prove that this impasse is largely invented by you, and any woman, using innate cunning and intuition, is able to completely destroy all enemy fortifications, destroy all obstacles to a happy life and come out of an unconditional winner from everyday battles.
- "How to protect yourself from insults".Patricia Evans
About the book:
Many women become victims of both physical and verbal violence, that is, they are insulting. How to protect yourself from insults is told in this book, the author of which, as a consultant psychologist, has been working with women who suffered from the rudeness of others for many years. Every day she receives hundreds of letters from all over the world, which became the basis of this book.
- "Why is he doing this".Landy Bankroft
About the book:
This book considers the problem of a man’s emotional and physical violence in relation to a woman in a family, in a romantic relationship. The author dispels myths about a man who applies violence to a woman. One of the most important myths: he does not control himself. Landy Bankroft proves that the problem is not that some men are not able to manage their anger, but in their value system. The book is extremely useful for women undergoing emotional or physical violence, it will help to realize what is happening, to return self -esteem and faith in their rights. But it is also useful for every person who seeks to build a healthy and safe relationship.
The author talks about violence in relations from a man to a woman. But in some respects, a woman applies emotional violence to a man, and, in my opinion, many principles and ideas of the author are applicable to this case too.
